The Rantosaur Sorrow and Pity

You can feel sorry for someone until they start feeling sorry for themselves, at which point they become sorrowful.

Once that happens, you will pity them until they start to pity themselves, at which point they become pityful.

Once that happens, and you finally realize the truth that you have been an enabler the whole time, your sorrow and pity for them goes away and you are set free.